I guess I’ll make my last blog post of the year about Feminism. It seems like 2017 was the year of Feminism. Like most things, there’s one half of Feminism that makes sense – and the other half. The other half is typically the more obnoxious, crazy woman that yells louder – so we’re hearing far more from the crazy half than the normal half. But the good half is still out there…
One thing I’ve found strange is that it’s essentially bad to tell a woman she’s pretty as of 2017. I know it depends on your approach. Wait, I probably shouldn’t use the word “approach”. That sounds like a trigger word. Yes, I understand all of that… So – it depends on how you go about telling a woman she’s pretty. This is just one example and I’m focusing on it because I find it odd and interesting that women are “appalled” and “disgusted” by men telling them they’re pretty.
The thing is… A man telling a woman she’s pretty doesn’t automatically equate to him wanting to push her over and ram his male personal part :p up her back door. More often than not, there’s no hidden meaning of “I wanna F you in the A”. (I guess this will be a PG rated post). A good portion of these guys just want to brighten up your day and see you smile. Okay, okay, back up. They just want to “make” you smile. Because the man “seeing” you smile is all about his own gratification… (El Oh El – There is just way too much thought being put into all of this…)
Are there men out there who want more than a smile? Oh, sorry, want more than to give you a reason to smile and feel good about yourself? Yes, sure, of course. There are… But why hate all of them for what some do?
1. Some guy walks past you, smiles, and says, “Hello, beautiful” – and walks away going about his business.
2. Some guy walks past you, smiles, and says, “Hello, beautiful” – and sticks around to get a response, pursuing you (when you don’t want to be pursued).
Are you angry with guy #1? I’m sure you’re angry with guy #2. If you’re angry with guy #1 – why? The guy probably just wanted to make you smile – and there’s a darn 50/50 chance he did it for YOUR benefit – not his own… /sarcasm
Your boyfriend, husband, girlfriend, wife, or whatever is out there these days with the whole gender crisis going on – probably loves the fact that you say you’re “disgusted” by a man telling you you’re pretty. But the truth is, it really depends on the man telling you. Who’s a famous male actor that 99% of the women like these days? Insert his name into this example. If HE did any of this, you’d be fine with it. Don’t lie to yourself.
As mentioned, I understand this is just one tiny piece of Feminism. And I realize that normal Feminists aren’t this ridiculous. To be young (and dumb)…